Life is best organized as a series of daring ventures from a secure base.

John Bowlby

Are you Warren Buffet or Elon Musk?

Are you Marie Kondo or Bear Grylls?

Are you a scheduler or an explorer?

Are you a saver or an investor?

Which seems the worst situation to you: boredom or overstimulation?

We all have a set point along the continuum from order to chaos. And our comfort zone extends to the left and to the right, but not too far.

We can’t imagine how anyone can live farther to the left of us or farther to the right of us.

We make moral judgments in both directions.

Those to the left are neat freaks. Those to the right are messy slobs.

We smugly ask, “How can they stand to live like that?”

We need security. We need novelty.

We need order. We need chaos.

We need stability. We need freedom.

If you happen to be an organizer, you might think more organization is always better.

But at some point, organization becomes a prison.

If you happen to value freedom, you might think more is always better.

But as Janis Joplin realized, “Freedom’s just another word for nothin’ left to lose. And nothin’ ain’t worth nothin’ but it’s free.”